Climate change

Damn that Stephen Fry.

He's summarised my frustrations about the nay-sayers in the global warming and climate change debate in his latest blessay - Getting Overheated (for the impatient, you can skip the first half of the blessay which is about inadvertantly irritating Terry Pratchett fans). Being erudite and articulate though, he manages to convey it in a persuasive and well thought out, reasoned manner.

This is someone who professes an ignorance in all areas scientific, whereas I have enough scientific background to find the whole thing terrifying (especially the inaction and indifference of so many people over this issue).

It makes me feel even more inadequate, even though he's a legend.

Dammit.

AcidCat

Compliments

Just been reading Stephen Fry's excellent blog (or blessay as each post is much more akin to an essay on a particular subject) and found a post on fame particularly interesting. It includes a section on aspects of his fame, and the section on receiving compliments struck a chord. I don't receive compliments often, but when I do, shyness and modesty make me contradict any compliments as I don't know how to accept them. Having read through his thoughtful essay I realise that it's completely the wrong thing to do. I've included the section below (without permission, but please don't sue me) as it really made me appreciate how wrong it is, and I'd better work at gracefully accepting the compliment.

AcidCat

Compliments
The entire interaction works better if there’s a little understanding on each side. You might be the fortieth person that day to approach your sleb. They might have just heard that their favourite aunt has been diagnosed with cancer. On the other hand, the famous person should remember that it takes courage to approach a stranger, especially one you’ve only seen on TV or at the movies. They could so easily squash you. Many newly made slebs fall down especially in the area of compliments. It’s perhaps a very English thing to find it hard to accept kind words about oneself. If anyone praised me in my early days as a comedy performer I would say, “Oh, nonsense. Shut up. No really, I was dreadful.” I remember going through this red-faced shuffle in the presence of the mighty John Cleese who upbraided me the moment we were alone.
‘You genuinely think you’re being polite and modest, don’t you?’
‘Well, you know …’
‘Don’t you see that when someone hears their compliments contradicted they naturally assume that you must think them a fool? Suppose you went up to a pianist after a recital and told him how much you had enjoyed his performance and he replied, “rubbish, I was awful!” You would go away thinking you were a poor judge of musicianship and that he thought you an idiot.’
‘Yes, but I can’t agree with someone if they praise me, that would sound so cocky. And anyway, suppose I do think I was awful?’ (which most of the time performers do think of themselves, of course.)
‘It’s so simple. You just say thank you. You just thank them. How hard is that?’
You must think me the completest kind of arse to have needed to be told how to take a compliment, but it was an important lesson that I (clearly) never forgot. So bound up with not wanting to look smug and pleased with ourselves are we that we forget how mortifying it is to have compliments thrown back in one’s face.